Valentine’s feels like a fun and exciting time, except for when you’re single and feel alone. With flowers to chocolates and romantic dates, people can start to feel like they are missing out, simply because they do not have a partner. But in reality, there is more to life than just having a romantic partner.
The key to not feeling alone during Valentine’s Day is to center yourself and value the important and fulfilling things that extend beyond being single. Here’s a few suggestions:
Valentine’s Day is more about celebrating love in general. The saying “love is in the air” does not have to be narrowed down to just romantic love. Love is universal!
Friends
Having friends adds value and significance, and offers company and fun moments. Platonic love gives us a sense of belonging and a support system.
- Try organizing a Galentine’s Day themed party with your close friends
- Give each other flowers and gifts! The act of gift giving is not only restricted to romantic partners.
- Express your love: list things that you like about your friends.
- Bake together: some people express love through baking
Have a you moment- Self Care
It is important to prioritize yourself. Loving someone else is impossible if you do not love yourself first.
- Be kind to yourself. Don’t put high expectations or burdens on yourself.
- Buy yourself flowers
- Treat yourself: purchase an item you have been wanting to get
- Engage in self care activities: put on your favorite movie, paint your nails, put on a face mask… most importantly, relax.
- Eat your favorite snack
In short, Valentine’s Day is about spending time with the people you love and value. There is more to life than just romantic partners. Love can be shown through simple acts. Remember, don’t overthink it, it’s just another day of the year.
